Reminding Your Body that Your OK

The past several days I've just been in a funk.  I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband.  It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK

Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Question Time!!!!!  Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction.  I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop.  He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

A Sticky Situation

So, I have to share our weekend with ya'll.  The Valentine part was wonderful....honestly my Hubby was extra sweet to the whole Family all weekend long.  But, I want to share a little trigger that happened so you can understand that just because time has passed since discovery, recovery is avidly worked on and your … Continue reading A Sticky Situation

Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

I was emailed over the weekend regarding Our Daily "Recovery" routine.  I thought that would be helpful to share with everyone.  We Work HARD every single day to stay Connected and Transparent with each other.  We put hours into our Marriage every day, here is what we do..... Our youngest boy has Autism, so he … Continue reading Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating.  I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head.  I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not.  I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

Reminder of Why I’m Here….

Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality.  I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way.  I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….

Transparency is Key for Success

My Husband came home from work the other day and after we welcomed each other he had something he wanted to share with me.  He needed to be transparent.  In the beginning....2 years ago I would have feelings of despair, anxiety and hopelessness like I felt from the on start of Discovery when he needed … Continue reading Transparency is Key for Success

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

Reader Question~ Standing in the Fire

Recently I was asked does the fear of your Husband having a relapse ever go away?  Well, the short honest answer to this question, is No.  But, I will say that with time, the proper therapy and guidance your constant worry and checking up on him, the bank accounts, the internet history, his phone and … Continue reading Reader Question~ Standing in the Fire

A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction

This week has been super busy....I keep thinking at any moment I'm going to be caught up and I can relax for a minute and just sit without feeling guilty for the 5 million things I still need to get done.  We started our Step Study with Celebrate Recovery this week.  Now we are at … Continue reading A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction