The past several days I've just been in a funk. I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband. It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK
Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
So, I have to share our weekend with ya'll. The Valentine part was wonderful....honestly my Hubby was extra sweet to the whole Family all weekend long. But, I want to share a little trigger that happened so you can understand that just because time has passed since discovery, recovery is avidly worked on and your … Continue reading A Sticky Situation
When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating. I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head. I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not. I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off
Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality. I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way. I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….
When I walk into a room I always scan the are. It's just what I do, looking around to see if there are any potential Triggers that may bother my Husband, my kids or myself. It could be something as simple as a magazine on a table or the shoes the hostess is wearing. It's … Continue reading How to Prepare for Triggers
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
I used to think that Nurturing was what you did for others. I was a Mom, I had things to do, messes to clean and little lives to mold. I don't have time to nurture myself and whoever said to strap the oxygen mask on yourself before others obviously didn't have Kiddos. This is how … Continue reading Nurturing Self
Why do we blame ourselves? Why do we feel it's our fault that we were betrayed? In my opinion I believe it's what we are accustomed to doing. I have met so many women and men that all have blamed themselves, but have discovered that their lives has prepped them to accept the blame. Our … Continue reading Raised to be Betrayed…..
I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode. I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them. Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week. Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There