Wow, what a crazy few weeks it has been.....I had my surgery and lived through it!! YAY Me! And now I'm busy pulling myself together and getting through the last few weeks of full-time school before we switch to part-time Summer school, I homeschool if you didn't read about that before. Lot's of cleaning, organizing … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House
The past several days I've just been in a funk. I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband. It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK
Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own. My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror. I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning. I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages
We are all Human, even those of us in Recovery. You don't just decide to battle your addiction one day and life becomes all Perfect! If you are in Recovery from Sex Addiction I KNOW YOU are TEMPTED EVERYWHERE!!! It is almost impossible to go a whole day without seeing or hearing something sexual. … Continue reading Don’t let the Devil Know Your Loop Holes
One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare! We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery. I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try. Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
I used to think that Nurturing was what you did for others. I was a Mom, I had things to do, messes to clean and little lives to mold. I don't have time to nurture myself and whoever said to strap the oxygen mask on yourself before others obviously didn't have Kiddos. This is how … Continue reading Nurturing Self
Why do we blame ourselves? Why do we feel it's our fault that we were betrayed? In my opinion I believe it's what we are accustomed to doing. I have met so many women and men that all have blamed themselves, but have discovered that their lives has prepped them to accept the blame. Our … Continue reading Raised to be Betrayed…..
I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode. I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them. Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week. Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There