Repair and Nourish

Some people have Morning routines and that's great...I on the other hand can't seem to remember my own name until at least 11am, therefore I have an Evening Routine.  Every single night I repair and nourish myself.  This is all new to me....before Discovery I was always running around like a crazy person trying to … Continue reading Repair and Nourish

Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

I was emailed over the weekend regarding Our Daily "Recovery" routine.  I thought that would be helpful to share with everyone.  We Work HARD every single day to stay Connected and Transparent with each other.  We put hours into our Marriage every day, here is what we do..... Our youngest boy has Autism, so he … Continue reading Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating.  I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head.  I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not.  I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!

I often get so wrapped up in life, homeschooling and the kids that I have to take a moment and reflect on my marriage and my Husband.  I do this daily, because I realize that the Devil is always on the prowl.  And I am right there on point shewing him away from our front … Continue reading Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!

Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction

One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare!  We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery.  I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try.  Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction

This week has been super busy....I keep thinking at any moment I'm going to be caught up and I can relax for a minute and just sit without feeling guilty for the 5 million things I still need to get done.  We started our Step Study with Celebrate Recovery this week.  Now we are at … Continue reading A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction

Exalting God not the Addiction

Finally, we were able to make it to church yesterday.....except Hubby.  He is still sick and in the mornings it's even worse, so he stayed back.  This was the first time I have gone to church without him since Discovery.  So, what does this do to me.....triggers me, just a tiny bit.  But, it's such … Continue reading Exalting God not the Addiction