Wow, what a crazy few weeks it has been.....I had my surgery and lived through it!! YAY Me! And now I'm busy pulling myself together and getting through the last few weeks of full-time school before we switch to part-time Summer school, I homeschool if you didn't read about that before. Lot's of cleaning, organizing … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House
The past several days I've just been in a funk. I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband. It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK
Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
How can you forgive someone who hurt you so bad? How can you let go of the pain and release your fears and anxiety? Why not hold on and never let them forget? Because you are worth far more than that. God has so much in store for you and it all begins with healing. … Continue reading Forgive not Forget
Sometimes I feel that we are pushed and pulled in every direction. With three Kiddos at home, homeschooling and trying to keep the house livable looking it's a lot of work. Now on top of all that throw a load of Addiction, Trust Issues, Fear, Guilt and Shame. Yeah, things can go from mediocre to … Continue reading Saying Goodbye to Fear, Shame, Guilt and Lies
So, I have to share our weekend with ya'll. The Valentine part was wonderful....honestly my Hubby was extra sweet to the whole Family all weekend long. But, I want to share a little trigger that happened so you can understand that just because time has passed since discovery, recovery is avidly worked on and your … Continue reading A Sticky Situation
I was emailed over the weekend regarding Our Daily "Recovery" routine. I thought that would be helpful to share with everyone. We Work HARD every single day to stay Connected and Transparent with each other. We put hours into our Marriage every day, here is what we do..... Our youngest boy has Autism, so he … Continue reading Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question
When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating. I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head. I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not. I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off
Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality. I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way. I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….
My Husband came home from work the other day and after we welcomed each other he had something he wanted to share with me. He needed to be transparent. In the beginning....2 years ago I would have feelings of despair, anxiety and hopelessness like I felt from the on start of Discovery when he needed … Continue reading Transparency is Key for Success