Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Question Time!!!!!  Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction.  I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop.  He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating.  I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head.  I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not.  I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

To All the Anna Duggars Out There

I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode.  I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them.  Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week.  Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There

When Sparks Fly Carefully Put Them Out……

Life is better now, all is good...the threatening storm has changed it's course and all is well in my neck of the woods. So, I did talk to my Husband about my Trigger.  And I was reminded that sometimes he's Triggered when I get Triggered, which is why we have to be a Team working … Continue reading When Sparks Fly Carefully Put Them Out……

Vacation Triggers~What we are doing differently this year

We are planning Summer vacations right now.  We haven't went on a Summer Vacation in 3 or 4 years, minus the little camping trip we tried to take last April.  We were only 5 good months into the Recovery process, so that was probably stupid on our part to try to go camping.  I was … Continue reading Vacation Triggers~What we are doing differently this year

The Perfect Storm for Addiction

What did you do when you were a little kid and was sad, scared, hurt, overwhelmed, confused, embarrassed or ashamed?  I ate and cut myself and my Husband watched porn and masturbated.  It's crazy to think back and really look at what you did as a child for comfort.  I had a crazy childhood filled … Continue reading The Perfect Storm for Addiction