Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating. I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head. I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not. I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode. I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them. Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week. Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There
I was asked the other day how do I deal with Triggers when I'm out with my Kiddos or alone? Perfect question and it is a tricky situation at times. I remember back almost 2 years ago I was surrounded by triggers. I couldn't even go to church without being triggered and it was real … Continue reading Q & A of the Day
When it came out that my Husband had a sex addiction I was obviously hurt because I was his Wife and this was the ultimate betrayal. But, I also was hurt because I am a victim of sexual abuse. From the time I was 3 years old until I was out of Foster Care at … Continue reading Sweaty Crotch…..
Life is better now, all is good...the threatening storm has changed it's course and all is well in my neck of the woods. So, I did talk to my Husband about my Trigger. And I was reminded that sometimes he's Triggered when I get Triggered, which is why we have to be a Team working … Continue reading When Sparks Fly Carefully Put Them Out……
It's been a long time since I last wrote. We were on vacation and are finally home again. It's wonderful to step away from your real life and to relax on vacation, but it's also so nice to come back home and be back in that familiar environment. I have realized the safety I have … Continue reading The Sex Around Us……
We are planning Summer vacations right now. We haven't went on a Summer Vacation in 3 or 4 years, minus the little camping trip we tried to take last April. We were only 5 good months into the Recovery process, so that was probably stupid on our part to try to go camping. I was … Continue reading Vacation Triggers~What we are doing differently this year
What did you do when you were a little kid and was sad, scared, hurt, overwhelmed, confused, embarrassed or ashamed? I ate and cut myself and my Husband watched porn and masturbated. It's crazy to think back and really look at what you did as a child for comfort. I had a crazy childhood filled … Continue reading The Perfect Storm for Addiction