Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House

  Wow, what a crazy few weeks it has been.....I had my surgery and lived through it!!  YAY Me!  And now I'm busy pulling myself together and getting through the last few weeks of full-time school before we switch to part-time Summer school, I homeschool if you didn't read about that before.  Lot's of cleaning, organizing … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House

A Sticky Situation

So, I have to share our weekend with ya'll.  The Valentine part was wonderful....honestly my Hubby was extra sweet to the whole Family all weekend long.  But, I want to share a little trigger that happened so you can understand that just because time has passed since discovery, recovery is avidly worked on and your … Continue reading A Sticky Situation

Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

I was emailed over the weekend regarding Our Daily "Recovery" routine.  I thought that would be helpful to share with everyone.  We Work HARD every single day to stay Connected and Transparent with each other.  We put hours into our Marriage every day, here is what we do..... Our youngest boy has Autism, so he … Continue reading Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating.  I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head.  I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not.  I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off

Reminder of Why I’m Here….

Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality.  I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way.  I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….

God Can Heal the Worst Marriages

I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own.  My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror.  I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning.  I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages

Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction

One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare!  We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery.  I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try.  Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

Reader Question~ Standing in the Fire

Recently I was asked does the fear of your Husband having a relapse ever go away?  Well, the short honest answer to this question, is No.  But, I will say that with time, the proper therapy and guidance your constant worry and checking up on him, the bank accounts, the internet history, his phone and … Continue reading Reader Question~ Standing in the Fire