Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Question Time!!!!!  Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction.  I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop.  He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

To All the Anna Duggars Out There

I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode.  I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them.  Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week.  Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There

Reading to Heal from Sex Addiction

Ok, so you know now your Spouse has a Sex addiction.  You have yourself and your Family in a safe place.  I say this because you have to make sure that you are safe, especially with kids.  I have heard some really sad stories about harm coming to Spouses after discovery.  Please be careful and … Continue reading Reading to Heal from Sex Addiction

All Triggers need Boundaries

What a weekend....it was a great weekend, but even with Great weekends we have Triggers.  Let me explain, my Husband has a cheap old non-smart cell phone.  He gave up his brand new phone after I discovered his addiction along with access to his computer.  He used to spend more hours tucked away on his … Continue reading All Triggers need Boundaries

Come into the Light…..

I never in a million years thought my Husband would ever struggle with sex addiction!  I mean really, like that is a real thing!  Our daughter literally said that she would have believed that her Dad murdered someone before sleeping with prostitutes.  I think because he was always home.  He went to work in the … Continue reading Come into the Light…..

Seeing the Light when there is None

My feelings after the discovery of my Husband's addiction were explosive to say the very least.  I went back to old coping mechanisms that sheltered me through years of abuse as a child.  Cutting, burning, drinking, screaming and lashing out either on paper or to the one who caused the pain.  In this instance it … Continue reading Seeing the Light when there is None

Prostitutes bring new meaning to “Strip Mall”

So, the night I found out was awful.  I remember feeling like I was hit by a truck.  Blind-sighted to say the very least!  He had received a text while I was making dinner.  We had just moved into a new house and I had given his number to a neighbor we had met earlier … Continue reading Prostitutes bring new meaning to “Strip Mall”