Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode. I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them. Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week. Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There
When it came out that my Husband had a sex addiction I was obviously hurt because I was his Wife and this was the ultimate betrayal. But, I also was hurt because I am a victim of sexual abuse. From the time I was 3 years old until I was out of Foster Care at … Continue reading Sweaty Crotch…..
Ok, so you know now your Spouse has a Sex addiction. You have yourself and your Family in a safe place. I say this because you have to make sure that you are safe, especially with kids. I have heard some really sad stories about harm coming to Spouses after discovery. Please be careful and … Continue reading Reading to Heal from Sex Addiction
What a weekend....it was a great weekend, but even with Great weekends we have Triggers. Let me explain, my Husband has a cheap old non-smart cell phone. He gave up his brand new phone after I discovered his addiction along with access to his computer. He used to spend more hours tucked away on his … Continue reading All Triggers need Boundaries
Okay, that title might have scared you a little bit. But, I can assure you my Hubby is safe and sound. I'm going to talk briefly today about Triggers. Even though I'm kind of going through my whole story, I realize that there are some people reading this that are in the thick of discovery … Continue reading Trigger Happy
I never in a million years thought my Husband would ever struggle with sex addiction! I mean really, like that is a real thing! Our daughter literally said that she would have believed that her Dad murdered someone before sleeping with prostitutes. I think because he was always home. He went to work in the … Continue reading Come into the Light…..
My feelings after the discovery of my Husband's addiction were explosive to say the very least. I went back to old coping mechanisms that sheltered me through years of abuse as a child. Cutting, burning, drinking, screaming and lashing out either on paper or to the one who caused the pain. In this instance it … Continue reading Seeing the Light when there is None
So, the night I found out was awful. I remember feeling like I was hit by a truck. Blind-sighted to say the very least! He had received a text while I was making dinner. We had just moved into a new house and I had given his number to a neighbor we had met earlier … Continue reading Prostitutes bring new meaning to “Strip Mall”