Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House

  Wow, what a crazy few weeks it has been.....I had my surgery and lived through it!!  YAY Me!  And now I'm busy pulling myself together and getting through the last few weeks of full-time school before we switch to part-time Summer school, I homeschool if you didn't read about that before.  Lot's of cleaning, organizing … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House

Reminding Your Body that Your OK

The past several days I've just been in a funk.  I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband.  It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK

Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Question Time!!!!!  Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction.  I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop.  He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Repair and Nourish

Some people have Morning routines and that's great...I on the other hand can't seem to remember my own name until at least 11am, therefore I have an Evening Routine.  Every single night I repair and nourish myself.  This is all new to me....before Discovery I was always running around like a crazy person trying to … Continue reading Repair and Nourish

Saying Goodbye to Fear, Shame, Guilt and Lies

Sometimes I feel that we are pushed and pulled in every direction.  With three Kiddos at home, homeschooling and trying to keep the house livable looking it's a lot of work.  Now on top of all that throw a load of Addiction, Trust Issues, Fear, Guilt and Shame.  Yeah, things can go from mediocre to … Continue reading Saying Goodbye to Fear, Shame, Guilt and Lies

Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

I was emailed over the weekend regarding Our Daily "Recovery" routine.  I thought that would be helpful to share with everyone.  We Work HARD every single day to stay Connected and Transparent with each other.  We put hours into our Marriage every day, here is what we do..... Our youngest boy has Autism, so he … Continue reading Our Daily Recovery Routine~Reader Question

Reminder of Why I’m Here….

Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality.  I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way.  I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….

God Can Heal the Worst Marriages

I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own.  My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror.  I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning.  I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages

Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!

I often get so wrapped up in life, homeschooling and the kids that I have to take a moment and reflect on my marriage and my Husband.  I do this daily, because I realize that the Devil is always on the prowl.  And I am right there on point shewing him away from our front … Continue reading Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!

Why I have been MIA…..

You know it's been awhile since I've written anything.  I have been overwhelmed with life and trying to keep everything in perspective.  That is something I have learned through all this mess.  It may sound crazy depending on where you are with Discovering your own addiction or your spouse's.  But, I can honestly say that … Continue reading Why I have been MIA…..