Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Question Time!!!!!  Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction.  I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop.  He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?

Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend.  So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now!  🙂  She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with.  Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery

To All the Anna Duggars Out There

I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode.  I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them.  Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week.  Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There

Creating Safety for Your Spouse to Recover Too

The very first thing that my Husband did for me after all the secrets were out on the table was to create safety.  It was natural to him thankfully and after we started therapy just a few weeks later we realized we were already doing some of the things that they were suggesting.  So, how … Continue reading Creating Safety for Your Spouse to Recover Too

When Sparks Fly Carefully Put Them Out……

Life is better now, all is good...the threatening storm has changed it's course and all is well in my neck of the woods. So, I did talk to my Husband about my Trigger.  And I was reminded that sometimes he's Triggered when I get Triggered, which is why we have to be a Team working … Continue reading When Sparks Fly Carefully Put Them Out……

The Deep and then the Deeper

What have I been up to lately?  Well, coming back from a 10 day vacation almost makes me feel like I need another vacation from my vacation.  I've come down with an awful deep cough.  It's so deep I pee myself almost every time I cough.....I'm literally writing this in the bathroom, because I'm giving … Continue reading The Deep and then the Deeper

Who Not to Tell about Your Husband’s Sex Addiction and Why

It was early December when I found out and the very next week I was supposed to host a Christmas dinner for about 30 couples from our Homeschool group.  It was my 1st full year with these people and being the Codependent person I am, of course I would sign up to do a HUGE … Continue reading Who Not to Tell about Your Husband’s Sex Addiction and Why

Reading to Heal from Sex Addiction

Ok, so you know now your Spouse has a Sex addiction.  You have yourself and your Family in a safe place.  I say this because you have to make sure that you are safe, especially with kids.  I have heard some really sad stories about harm coming to Spouses after discovery.  Please be careful and … Continue reading Reading to Heal from Sex Addiction

What Questions Can You Ask??

I am often asked what can I ask my Spouse?  You can ask them Anything and Everything!!  You are the one who was betrayed and they need to be transparent with you.  Especially if you are working on keeping your Marriage and Family together.  Your Husband or Wife did sexual activities without you and then … Continue reading What Questions Can You Ask??