Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
You know it's been awhile since I've written anything. I have been overwhelmed with life and trying to keep everything in perspective. That is something I have learned through all this mess. It may sound crazy depending on where you are with Discovering your own addiction or your spouse's. But, I can honestly say that … Continue reading Why I have been MIA…..
I used to think that Nurturing was what you did for others. I was a Mom, I had things to do, messes to clean and little lives to mold. I don't have time to nurture myself and whoever said to strap the oxygen mask on yourself before others obviously didn't have Kiddos. This is how … Continue reading Nurturing Self
When it came out that my Husband had a sex addiction I was obviously hurt because I was his Wife and this was the ultimate betrayal. But, I also was hurt because I am a victim of sexual abuse. From the time I was 3 years old until I was out of Foster Care at … Continue reading Sweaty Crotch…..
What have I been up to lately? Well, coming back from a 10 day vacation almost makes me feel like I need another vacation from my vacation. I've come down with an awful deep cough. It's so deep I pee myself almost every time I cough.....I'm literally writing this in the bathroom, because I'm giving … Continue reading The Deep and then the Deeper
Been really busy trying to pack and get ready for our vacation. Yesterday I had a full on panic attack, I was tense all day and totally had a Lupus flare. Nothing crazy happened, no triggers, no misbehaving kids, just a regular day organizing and packing. It wasn't until my Husband told me to sit … Continue reading Situational Trigger be Gone Says the Little Girl
We are planning Summer vacations right now. We haven't went on a Summer Vacation in 3 or 4 years, minus the little camping trip we tried to take last April. We were only 5 good months into the Recovery process, so that was probably stupid on our part to try to go camping. I was … Continue reading Vacation Triggers~What we are doing differently this year
What a weekend....it was a great weekend, but even with Great weekends we have Triggers. Let me explain, my Husband has a cheap old non-smart cell phone. He gave up his brand new phone after I discovered his addiction along with access to his computer. He used to spend more hours tucked away on his … Continue reading All Triggers need Boundaries
We have been celebrating Birthday's and Mother's Day around here, so I have been extra busy around here. I have been thinking a lot about this past year. We have healed and grown so much in not only our Faith, but our Trust in each other. I know I mentioned that our two oldest Kiddos … Continue reading And then the Kids found out