Wow, what a crazy few weeks it has been.....I had my surgery and lived through it!! YAY Me! And now I'm busy pulling myself together and getting through the last few weeks of full-time school before we switch to part-time Summer school, I homeschool if you didn't read about that before. Lot's of cleaning, organizing … Continue reading Spring Clean Your Marriage Like Your House
The past several days I've just been in a funk. I've been continuously going through this roller coaster of emotions towards my Husband. It wasn't until yesterday during my therapy session that I put 2 and 2 together and figured out what was really going on. Because of years of my Husband's criticizing and belittling … Continue reading Reminding Your Body that Your OK
Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
How can you forgive someone who hurt you so bad? How can you let go of the pain and release your fears and anxiety? Why not hold on and never let them forget? Because you are worth far more than that. God has so much in store for you and it all begins with healing. … Continue reading Forgive not Forget
When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating. I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head. I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not. I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off
I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own. My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror. I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning. I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages
When I walk into a room I always scan the are. It's just what I do, looking around to see if there are any potential Triggers that may bother my Husband, my kids or myself. It could be something as simple as a magazine on a table or the shoes the hostess is wearing. It's … Continue reading How to Prepare for Triggers
I often get so wrapped up in life, homeschooling and the kids that I have to take a moment and reflect on my marriage and my Husband. I do this daily, because I realize that the Devil is always on the prowl. And I am right there on point shewing him away from our front … Continue reading Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!
We are all Human, even those of us in Recovery. You don't just decide to battle your addiction one day and life becomes all Perfect! If you are in Recovery from Sex Addiction I KNOW YOU are TEMPTED EVERYWHERE!!! It is almost impossible to go a whole day without seeing or hearing something sexual. … Continue reading Don’t let the Devil Know Your Loop Holes
One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare! We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery. I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try. Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction