Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
This week has been super busy....I keep thinking at any moment I'm going to be caught up and I can relax for a minute and just sit without feeling guilty for the 5 million things I still need to get done. We started our Step Study with Celebrate Recovery this week. Now we are at … Continue reading A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction
I have watched the Duggars since their very 1st episode. I've rejoiced with them, cried with them and even got encouraged on those really tough days of homeschooling because of them. Watching their family grow while living a God centered life serving others is what I saw when I tuned in each week. Even though … Continue reading To All the Anna Duggars Out There
When it came out that my Husband had a sex addiction I was obviously hurt because I was his Wife and this was the ultimate betrayal. But, I also was hurt because I am a victim of sexual abuse. From the time I was 3 years old until I was out of Foster Care at … Continue reading Sweaty Crotch…..
It was early December when I found out and the very next week I was supposed to host a Christmas dinner for about 30 couples from our Homeschool group. It was my 1st full year with these people and being the Codependent person I am, of course I would sign up to do a HUGE … Continue reading Who Not to Tell about Your Husband’s Sex Addiction and Why
I am often asked what can I ask my Spouse? You can ask them Anything and Everything!! You are the one who was betrayed and they need to be transparent with you. Especially if you are working on keeping your Marriage and Family together. Your Husband or Wife did sexual activities without you and then … Continue reading What Questions Can You Ask??
I walk in the room and my huge Mom bag filled with books, magazines, little bits of scribbled on papers and gum wrappers dangle off my shoulder. My arms are filled with notebooks crammed with my thoughts, lists of questions and my highly calculated timeline of my marriage. I am a Solver, I solve all … Continue reading Sex on the Brain
We have been celebrating Birthday's and Mother's Day around here, so I have been extra busy around here. I have been thinking a lot about this past year. We have healed and grown so much in not only our Faith, but our Trust in each other. I know I mentioned that our two oldest Kiddos … Continue reading And then the Kids found out
I never in a million years thought my Husband would ever struggle with sex addiction! I mean really, like that is a real thing! Our daughter literally said that she would have believed that her Dad murdered someone before sleeping with prostitutes. I think because he was always home. He went to work in the … Continue reading Come into the Light…..