Question Time!!!!! Ok, Confused and Scared sent me an email last night asking me this question.....What do you do when your Husband doesn't think he has a sex addiction. I know that he does because I have caught porn on our Family computer a million times and he constantly tells me he will stop. He … Continue reading Q&A of the Day…..Am I Crazy?
When I discovered my Husband was a Sex Addict I struggled Big Time with ruminating. I couldn't shake the thoughts and visions I had in my head. I would troll craigslist, go through old calendars to try and remember if he was with us or not. I would go through old receipts, scan every single … Continue reading The Cycle Goes On and On…..Till You Hop Off
Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality. I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way. I’m what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Reminder of Why I’m Here….
My Husband came home from work the other day and after we welcomed each other he had something he wanted to share with me. He needed to be transparent. In the beginning....2 years ago I would have feelings of despair, anxiety and hopelessness like I felt from the on start of Discovery when he needed … Continue reading Transparency is Key for Success
I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own. My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror. I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning. I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages
We are all Human, even those of us in Recovery. You don't just decide to battle your addiction one day and life becomes all Perfect! If you are in Recovery from Sex Addiction I KNOW YOU are TEMPTED EVERYWHERE!!! It is almost impossible to go a whole day without seeing or hearing something sexual. … Continue reading Don’t let the Devil Know Your Loop Holes
One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare! We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery. I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try. Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery
This week has been super busy....I keep thinking at any moment I'm going to be caught up and I can relax for a minute and just sit without feeling guilty for the 5 million things I still need to get done. We started our Step Study with Celebrate Recovery this week. Now we are at … Continue reading A Few Tips When Healing From Sex Addiction
Why do we blame ourselves? Why do we feel it's our fault that we were betrayed? In my opinion I believe it's what we are accustomed to doing. I have met so many women and men that all have blamed themselves, but have discovered that their lives has prepped them to accept the blame. Our … Continue reading Raised to be Betrayed…..