My Husband came home from work the other day and after we welcomed each other he had something he wanted to share with me. He needed to be transparent. In the beginning....2 years ago I would have feelings of despair, anxiety and hopelessness like I felt from the on start of Discovery when he needed … Continue reading Transparency is Key for Success
I remember when I first discovered my Husbands addiction my Mind was not my own. My thoughts and feelings were so our of wack that I hardly could recognize myself in the mirror. I resorted to old habits that I had used as a child and teenager to sooth myself....cutting and burning. I ran to … Continue reading God Can Heal the Worst Marriages
When I walk into a room I always scan the are. It's just what I do, looking around to see if there are any potential Triggers that may bother my Husband, my kids or myself. It could be something as simple as a magazine on a table or the shoes the hostess is wearing. It's … Continue reading How to Prepare for Triggers
I often get so wrapped up in life, homeschooling and the kids that I have to take a moment and reflect on my marriage and my Husband. I do this daily, because I realize that the Devil is always on the prowl. And I am right there on point shewing him away from our front … Continue reading Daily Work for a Warrior Wife!
Well, this weekend our Pastor resigned.....I was shocked, hurt and triggered. I felt abandoned and fooled. He just preformed our Son's wedding Saturday night and then we woke to the news on Sunday. After a day of collecting the facts and actually talking with mutual friends on the Leadership team, the Pastor himself and his … Continue reading Life is Not All Sprinkles and Lollipops
We are all Human, even those of us in Recovery. You don't just decide to battle your addiction one day and life becomes all Perfect! If you are in Recovery from Sex Addiction I KNOW YOU are TEMPTED EVERYWHERE!!! It is almost impossible to go a whole day without seeing or hearing something sexual. … Continue reading Don’t let the Devil Know Your Loop Holes
Wow, Over a month......What have I been doing? Well, being sick, well and then sick again. Not to mention I did have to have some fibroids removed surgically. Yes, that may have been too much info, but oh well.....that's been my life. We are still getting ready for a wedding and a sweet 16 party … Continue reading Letting Go
You know it's been awhile since I've written anything. I have been overwhelmed with life and trying to keep everything in perspective. That is something I have learned through all this mess. It may sound crazy depending on where you are with Discovering your own addiction or your spouse's. But, I can honestly say that … Continue reading Why I have been MIA…..
One of my Major Tools in my tool belt for repairing my marriage hands down has to be The Love Dare! We went out and bought it within a few days after Discovery. I was honestly just grasping for straws....anything that I thought would help I wanted to try. Back then I still thought I … Continue reading Dare to Recover Your Marriage from Sex Addiction
I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago...she's kind of a new friend. So, she doesn't know what we have been through the past 2 years and thinks my Hubby is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G....which he is....Now! 🙂 She was explaining to me this situation that her grade school friend was dealing with. Her Husband was … Continue reading Grieving While Your Spouse is in Recovery