I was asked the other day how do I deal with Triggers when I'm out with my Kiddos or alone? Perfect question and it is a tricky situation at times. I remember back almost 2 years ago I was surrounded by triggers. I couldn't even go to church without being triggered and it was real … Continue reading Q & A of the Day
Courage to change the things I can. By surrendering to God I won’t be ashamed while he guides me throughout my life. And my heart will be confident and fearless as I listen for his sweet voice. I pray for this every single day, sometimes it's hard to find the courage...to be fearless as … Continue reading Serenity Prayer…..Courage
The Serenity Prayer is so Special to me....There is not a day that goes by that I don't reach out to God in prayer. Over the next few days I thought we could take a closer look at the Serenity Prayer. God, Grant me the Serenity to ACCEPT the things I cannot change....... God does … Continue reading Serenity Prayer….
If I could talk to all the Spouses out there who has a Sex Addicted Spouse what would I say to them? My heart aches for you and the pain that you are feeling right now is real, but NOT PERMANENT! If may feel right now that your life is over, that you can't breathe … Continue reading Pain to the Rescue
Finally, we were able to make it to church yesterday.....except Hubby. He is still sick and in the mornings it's even worse, so he stayed back. This was the first time I have gone to church without him since Discovery. So, what does this do to me.....triggers me, just a tiny bit. But, it's such … Continue reading Exalting God not the Addiction
I have been writing my life story for years....the abuse, the trauma, life on the streets and my total commitment to my God during it all. People would often ask me how I keep my faith, how do I keep rolling with the punches? While writing my story I wanted to paint a picture to … Continue reading Accepting God’s Challenge for the Greater Good
The Nasties have taken over our house and not one of us has had more then 12 hours of peace within our body since we came back from Disney. So, besides cleaning up puke, disinfecting and making boat loads of chicken noodle soup I have been weeding through the junk in our house. Even though … Continue reading Getting Rid of Trauma…One Chatchke at a Time