Beautiful Day for Therapy!

It truly is a Beautiful day for mind needs it.  I don't know where you are on your journey, but we are at 17 months since D Day.  Once the initial shock and Trauma of it all has simmered down you, the Spouse will need to patch yourself together.  Betrayal is the hardest thing … Continue reading Beautiful Day for Therapy!

Prostitutes bring new meaning to “Strip Mall”

So, the night I found out was awful.  I remember feeling like I was hit by a truck.  Blind-sighted to say the very least!  He had received a text while I was making dinner.  We had just moved into a new house and I had given his number to a neighbor we had met earlier … Continue reading Prostitutes bring new meaning to “Strip Mall”

Still Figuring this out!

So, I have been blogging for over 10 years.  Just not on please hang in there with me as I figure this all out.  Between therapy, support groups, 3 kids and homeschooling my life is an amazing roller coaster.  But, this little place on the internet is important to me.  It's important for my … Continue reading Still Figuring this out!

STD Testing……Check!

Safety comes first always…..If you even suspect your spouse is anything but Faithful I would run and get tested.  Embarrassment is not worth the cost of your health.  As soon as the initial shock wore off the rage of worry overcame me.  Could I have a disease?  I have three kids to think about here.  … Continue reading STD Testing……Check!

Colored Glasses….In the Begining

Sometimes we Believe one thing about our life that we suspect is not so, but with handy colored glasses even we can be fooled into thinking what we perceive is actual reality.  I say this because I have lived most of my 39 years that way.  I'm what you would call an expert shape shifter … Continue reading Colored Glasses….In the Begining